Love Notes
Because being single doesn't mean you have to feel alone.
The Plank in Your Eye
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
Ladies–you are also watching porn.Â
Some of you just clutched your chest like a Southern Baptist grandma reading the obituaries, but I need you to stay with me.
But Megan! you exclaim, I have never once logged on to one of those awful sites! Or looked at a dirty magazine! ...
Aug 26, 2026
Dreams
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
I’ve been heads down, focusing on new consultations lately (which has been DELIGHTFUL! Welcome to all of our new clients!) and in times when I’m feeling stressed and a bit overworked, nothing feels better to me than visioning about the big picture. I am a person who is mot...
Aug 19, 2026
Date Your "Siblings"
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
If there is a single person of the opposite gender in your church who is the right age for you, who is not related to you, and who does not repulse you, please take the next 5 minutes and reconsider whether or not they could be a dating prospect. I’ll wait.Â
Back? Great. L...
Aug 12, 2026
Stories
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
We’ve re-opened the matchmaking pipeline to ladies, which has been so exciting! As I’m writing this (a mere 3 days into the sale) we’ve already had about 23 ladies register. I can’t wait to meet all of you!
As I’m gearing up for another season of intake, I’m remembering an...
Aug 05, 2026
Love People, Use Things
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
For a while, I got into the podcasting duo Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus, who cohost The Minimalists podcast and who released a compelling documentary called Minimalism in 2019. They’re not Christians, and you should probably listen to their material sparingly,...
Jul 29, 2026
We're Making Changes
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
Everything about how we match women is about to change.Â
One of the purposes of this newsletter is to keep our community informed about the Project and our plans for managing it. This edition of the newsletter is going to be heavily focused on announcing our plans for the ...
Jul 22, 2026
Matchability
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
“How fast can you find me a match?” is a question I’ve gotten used to answering in consultations. I usually reply by discussing that client’s “matchability,” but for those of you who may have started working with us during the early days of the Project, the term might be u...
Jul 15, 2026
Mythology
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
My first class that I signed up for when I went to college was Mythology 4100, which was a course taught by the Dean of our college just once every few years. The Dean (who later became both my first boss for my student Administrative Assistant position and also a mentor a...
Jul 08, 2026
Stone Age Romance
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
Long post warning: I think if I had to boil down everything I’ve learned about what men and women want from their partners over the past three years, it would best be summarized by two core questions. This is likely a bit of an oversimplification, and I’m usually a bit ske...
Jul 01, 2026
Unattractive
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
Most of us aren’t that attractive.Â
I don’t mean that we’re not attractive at all. I just mean that we’re not THAT attractive. We’re not attractive enough that someone would cross a crowded room to talk to us. Most of us are the kind of attractive where, if someone hung ar...
Jun 24, 2026
Blame
What’s on Megan’s Mind?
If I were the Devil, I’d want you to blame the other gender for your loneliness.Â
Women expect too much from their partners. Men are too picky about appearances. Women want someone so spiritual, it’s unattainable. Men want their partners to give up everything to be their s...
Jun 17, 2026
The Tower of Babel
Hey Single Friend,Â
Welcome to Love Notes! I’m so excited that you’re here. If you’re new: Love Notes are weekly updates from Megan, designed to give you a boost of encouragement and keep you looped in on all of the happenings at The Synchrony Project. These are always written straight from my he...
Jun 10, 2026
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